Real wedding: Kathy + Rob

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License to Wed from Bobcat Productions on Vimeo.

Rob Price and Kathy Park were married at Ici in Fort Greene, Brooklyn, on May 16, 2009 at 6 pm.

We officially got engaged on February 1.  It was, coincidentally, Super Bowl Sunday, so I will forever think of that day as romantic and meaningful.  What Rob and I decided right away, from the practical perspective, was that we wanted an intimate wedding that conveyed our personalities down to the details.  We also promised each other that with every decision we faced, we’d remember what getting married really means, and we’d have fun with the process.  Neither of us could comprehend the idea of becoming crazed over something that was supposed to be joyous, so, we were on the same page from the emotional perspective, too.

Planning our wedding was incredible because it was such an all-encompassing experience that asked us to work individually and together, emotionally and physically, creatively and logistically, and short-term and long-term.  Rob and I had worked together before on projects, but this was like the marathon.  There were highs and lows, but in the end, I treasure our planning period as much as I do our actual wedding day.  We paced things pretty well, so that the last weekend before our wedding, when we had done all the work, we just relaxed…took our first rowboat ride in Central Park, went to P.S. 1, had a leisurely brunch and just enjoyed each other and had time to sort of meditate on the vows we were going to make the following weekend.

What anchored our wedding as an event was the color scheme (gray, green and white), the oval as a motif, a sense of fun, and a classic-with-a-twist vibe.  Using those general ideas as a foundation, we found the right venue and created the details.  For a living, I do PR, which includes planning lots of events, and Rob is an industrial designer, so we saw the wedding as the ultimate collaboration. Creativity and productivity are two tenets of our relationship, and we wanted our wedding to represent that.

Highlights include:

Our logo: We created a logo with our initials in an oval that appeared on the invitations and then again at the ceremony on some of the mirrors and windows.  Rob and I then appeared “in” an oval, which was a backdrop during the ceremony, echoing the logo.

Invitation: Rob and I designed the invitation ourselves.  It conveyed both classic and modern through the colors and fonts used.  Because dark gray cardstock is extremely hard to find, Print Icon created a custom paper for us, essentially gluing three layers of card stock together.  We had the cards engraved with white text.  Then we made our own green envelope liners and had a simple green grosgrain band that went around the gray and white invitation and vellum reply cards.  I hand-addressed each of the 40+ invitations using calligraphy.

Decor: An oval served as a backdrop for me and Rob during the ceremony, creating a portrait and anchoring the all-white minimalist space.  We really like the oval shape for many reasons.  I like it because I love pictures and the shape reminds me of portraits.  Rob likes it because the oval feels classic and modern at the same time.  We extended the oval shape throughout the wedding, down to Rob’s green oval cuff links. Something that brought guests into the oval motif were these green oval frames Rob designed, which served as photo backdrops for portraits during the reception.

Often in subtle ways, we put our stamp on every area of the venue that our guests would encounter.  For instance, when guests walked up to the wrought-iron gates of Ici, they were met with our logo seemingly etched on the window, and a small painted sign on an oval canvas pointing them upstairs to the wedding space.  Also, on each step we placed a pair of green ceramic Korean wedding ducks (symbolic of marriage because they mate for life).  And for the bathroom, I had made a gray sink skirt and bought some green hand soap.  It was fun making the space ours for the night.

Video: About a month before the wedding, we filmed and edited a music video about the adventure of getting our marriage license.  Called License to Wed, the film is about our experience of getting our marriage license.  http://www.vimeo.com/4699684 It was a lot of fun screening it at the wedding.

Favors: Rob and I both like to throw pottery, so we made bud vases that served as centerpieces as well as wedding favors.  Each piece had our oval logo stamped onto and our wedding date etched onto the bottoms.  Each bud vase was unique, reflecting the individuality of each guest.

Neither of us did all the work on any given piece because with each step of the process (throwing, trimming, decorating, stamping, glazing, firing), we shared the experience.  Therefore, each gift was really from both of us.  Making the favors was a metaphor for the whole wedding process.

Friends: When we could make something, we did, and when we couldn’t, we looked to our friends first.  We decided against having a wedding party in order to keep things simple, but we incorporated friends into our wedding in many ways and they became integral participants. This added to the intimate feel of the wedding because everything was made or done with love.  Pastry chef Vivian Kamen made our passion fruit and chocolate cake, Photographer Steph Goralnick shot us, Eric Whipple of Crown Signs made vinyls of our logo and Claudia Urquiola was our day-of coordinator.

Venue: We had originally hoped to have our wedding in the stables at Frankie’s 457, but working with them wasn’t pleasant.  And then we found Ici, where we really felt we were meant to have our wedding.  From the aesthetics of the space to the warmth of the staff to the awesomeness of the food, Ici exceeded our expectations and complemented the feel of our wedding.

The cocktail hat: We had never DIY’d so many things in such a short period of time.  No matter how much we had going on, a we’ll-make-it-ourself attitude was constant.  I had seen a fancy hat that I liked but it only came in a black and violet fabric combination.  When I found out it’d cost around $450 to custom make the hat in shades of ivory, I decided to give it a try myself.  Rob helped me design it, too, and I loved the final product.  We even sewed in a little antique blue button as my “something blue.”  Certainly, seeing so many brides DIY aspects of their weddings on sites like this one, had inspired me.

Table markers: Each of the four tables was a representation of a medium we have used to be creative:  Painting, Sketching, Photography, and Sculpture.  This conveyed our dedication to living creative lives.

Hidden details: Rob embroidered I (heart) U and his initials on the handkerchief that I carried down the aisle.
Participants, Vendors, and Venues:
Officiant:  Jesse Hendrich (www.jessehendrich.com)
Photographer:  Steph Goralnick (www.sgoralnick.com)
Pastry chef:  Vivian Kamen
Ceremony and reception location:  Ici restaurant’s second floor private space  http://www.icirestaurant.com/
Cellist:  Jennifer Girone  http://jennifergirone.homestead.com/
Printer that produced the invitation that Rob and I designed:  Print Icon http://www.printicon.com/
Dance instructor:  Jessi Patz at Sandra Cameron Dance Center  http://www.sandracameron.com/
Ceramics studio where we made budvase wedding favors and centerpieces:  http://www.clayspace1205.com/
Makeup instruction:  Makeup by Tiffany via YouTube (Glamorous Bronze:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aeYMO8GT5vo&feature=channel_page )
Hair instruction:  Also Professor YouTube (Loose beachy waves:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PNbxHToXz0M&feature=channel_page )
Fabrics for the table runners, sink skirt, etc:  B&J Fabrics  http://www.bandjfabrics.com/servlet/StoreFront
Lily of the Valley flowers for bouquet and table settings:  Star Valley Flowers http://www.starvalleyflowers.com/gallery2.html
Flowers for the ceremony and reception:  Surroundings, Posies, Takashimaya and about five bodegas on the Upper West Side
Ostrich feathers:  Ostrich.com  http://www.ostrich.com/

Outfits:
Dress:  J. Crew
Bride’s shoes:  J. Crew via eBay bidding war
Earrings:  Alexis Bittar (Kathy was inspired by similar earrings that Vane wore on her wedding day)
Engagement ring:  Doyle and Doyle http://www.doyledoyle.com
Other jewelry:  Antique tourmaline and platinum brooch from Ellis Antiques
Stole:  Kathy had it made using silk from B&J Fabrics
Cocktail hat:  Made by Kathy (Kathy’s first and last try at millinery)
Suit:  Banana Republic
Tie:  BCBG
Groom’s Shoes:  Bottega Veneta
Cufflinks:  Dunhill
Groom’s watch:  Rolex (wedding gift from Kathy’s father)

OK, that video sold me on this being one of the coolest weddings I’ve ever seen!  Thanks for sharing Kathy!

[images by Steph Goralnick]

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Save the Date: Amber + Nate

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I have a friend who owns Skidmore Inc (http://www.skidmorestudio.com/we/index.html). – a creative agency in Royal Oak, MI.  She had one of her designers mock up this save the date for us.  The designers name is Libby Cole and she is available for freelance work (libby.cole@gmail.com) – we loved being recognized as “the couple on the fridge” by friends of friends as we made our way to the big day.

[image from Amber]

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Save the Date: Lynnea + Nathan

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Since every Save the Date I have received so far from friends has been a magnet, I wanted to create something unique and larger, yet simple and chic that would really pop if our guests chose to put it up on their fridge. Our colors were be the ever popular black, white, and green, and the green was a natural choice to flood over the whole piece. It’s actually the Pantone that exactly matches my wedding shoes (my first purchase for the wedding)! My fiance and I had been dating 8 years, so I couldn’t resist having the headline read “Nathan and Lynnea are (finally) getting married!” as a joke on my initial layouts. Nathan thought it was funny, so it made it on to the final piece. We’re not a very formal couple, so the little touch of humor really suits us. The finishing element was the stamps which were a subtle way to make it extra personal by incorporating our smiling faces, and I justified the expense because they were on a postcard and not an envelope that would be immediately thrown away. Hope you like!

[image from Lynnea]

And with that, I’ve got to close up submissions for save the dates…lots of other things that have been put on the backburner in the meanwhile, so I’ll let you know when the next Save the Date will be!  Thanks to everyone who shared!

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Real wedding: Heather + David

David and I planned to have our wedding ceremony and reception in Costa Rica, for our love of the sun and surf, and invite our close friends and family to witness our union under the chuppah and celebrate with us. But as it turned out, our family had some exciting events that would prevent a few close family members from joining us. So, in an effort to include everyone closest to us in our celebration, we decided to have 2 wedding celebrations: a religious ceremony and reception in Costa Rica on May 12, 2009, and a legal ceremony and dinner on April 5, 2009, which would be a small gathering of just the immediate family, and my best childhood girlfriend, to be held in the garden of the private residence of David’s father and step-mother in Marin, CA. We were fortunate to have David’s 96 year-old grandfather, who is an internationally-known Rabbi, officiate our legal ceremony for us, and have our closest family members in attendance, totaling 16 people.

We couldn’t have asked for a more perfect day. The weather was warm, the sun was shining, and love and joy were all around us. I wore a spring-time white, halter dress from BCBG and fuscia colored, satin heels from Stuart Weitzman. David wore a custom button-down shirt by Ascot Chang, pants from Banana Republic, a belt from The Hound, and shoes by Auri Footwear.
The florals were arranged and presented by Main Street Florist, San Anselmo, CA, the Costa Rican inspired menu was prepared and served by Stacy Scott Fine Catering, San Rafael, CA, the wedding cake was designed and created by Shin Min Li of I Dream of Cake, San Francisco, CA, and our photography was shot by Janet and Lisa of JL Photografia, Monterey, CA.

Main Street Flora Gardens(415) 485-2996 

Stacey Scott Fine Catering – 415-455-8181

I Dream of Cake - 415-989-2253

JL Photografia – 760-494-5894 serving northern ca + available for travel

[images from JL Photografia]

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Save the Date: Chandra + Eric

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My fiance and I had our photographer mock-up this save the date, from another bride we saw on your website!  She took it a step further by printing on both the front and the back, of thick, linen, cardstock.  Our photographer is Carmen Nauseef of Blink of an Eye Photography and deserves all the credit for this beautiful STD.  We took the photographs back in our home state of Ohio and love the farm, rustic feel it gives.

[image from Chandra]

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